Let me just start by saying that I do come off as an ass from time to time, but that is because people don't interpret my personality properly. People don't understand that I am honest and sarcastic about life, including my opinions on life and society. In general I am not a people person. I like dogs much better! What's not to like about them. For proof see the photo above.
Now that's not to say I don't like people at all.... Just most. I guess you could say I can not understand why people just can't be who they truely are and stop living behind these self-made walls where they can put on any amount of curb appeal they want to fit into the neighborhood they are trying to fit into or not fit into. But behind those walls like a house of glass that protects itself by tearing everyone else down through negative comments and actions. Occasionally the gate is accidentally left open and those actions are allowed to slip out. Only then do you get a feel for what really lies behind those walls.
You see I don't believe in that notion of living life. I don't like walls and thankfully I have found a person that believes the same way I do and acts the way we believe. She sometimes even acts better at living a life without walls. Now I will be the first to admit that I do have a wall up at times, but I would call it more of a moat than a wall. You can see my glass house, but I don't let you in because I don't trust what's behind your wall.
So I what I am saying is that if you know me, be yourself, tell me how you feel and quit trying to be someone you are not. I am not trying to fit in anywhere, even though I have been accused of trying too hard. I guess you could say that person didn't make it across the moat. Hell, that person can't even find a mirror to see what their glass house really looks like. If you truely know me, you know that I could really care less about who you are or what you do. As long as you are honest and nice to me and the people around me, I will be the same to you. Once you break that trust, all bets are off. What's wrong with expecting others to treat you the way you would like to be treated? We are all getting too old to act like a bunch of adolescents jockeying for the title of coolest asshole. Have confidence in yourself because no one else will until you do.
Now go out there and be genuinely nice to someone. Not because I am telling you to, but because it's the right thing to do.
For my next post I am going to try to spice it up a little bit. Maybe even add a few photos. I am still new to blogging (this is only my third post but I am working at it.)
Enjoy the day!


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